Writing 101 – Day 3 – One-word inspiration

Prompts come in many different forms. Sometimes, a single word is all you need to get your mind’s wheels turning. Here are six words:

HOPE

REGRET

HOME

CHOICE

ABUNDANCE

SECRET

Select one word in this list that speaks to you in some way. Have you always wanted to write about that one decision that changed your life? Are you a long-term traveler looking for the right city to settle?

The beauty of the one-word prompt is that it’s open to interpretation. What do you think of when you hear this word? What do you see? This word is simply the seed for your post: no matter your style or genre (personal writing, short story, poetry, academia), you can shape your idea as you see fit.

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I chose the word Regret (also comes with choice).

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When I think of the word regret I think of my marriage and how much I regretted marrying the man I chose and I use the term chose loosely as he didn’t take my rejection well and threatened to kill himself. I couldn’t let that happen even though now I finally understand that would have been his choice and not my fault.

Even though it was a bad choice and I do regret it very much for what it did to me, I do not regret the three great children I have from that union. They are the loves of my life and I would not give them up for anything, even if I had to go through that marriage again. It was 23 long years we made it last, but finally gave up when another woman entered our lives. Our youngest was only 12.

I have been divorced for 16 years and I am happier now then I was during the marriage even though I am struggling to survive and it can be lonely at times. I only have to see him during family parties which is more than enough.

I have my children and grandchildren and that makes me happy.

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About Tessa

Teresa (Tessa) Smeigh is now in her 60's and still going strong despite her disabilities affecting both physical and mental abilities. She has bipolar disorder (mental), Fibromyalgia (nerves), degenerative disc disease (spine), and arthritis (joints). Despite that she is active in Mental Health Advocating, writing for www.IBPF.org (volunteer for non-profit) and has 5 blog posts already published by them. She is also working on 2 fiction books (mysteries). She keeps her blog filled with useful content, daily devotionals (She is a Christian), stories and poems. Plenty to keep you busy. She has also been interviewed by blogs and had other posts published on many different blogs. She has 3 blogs so far http://www.tessacandoit.com and http://www.finallyawriter.com and http://www.sunnythoughtsandprayers.wordpress.com She is from Deptford, NJ. Her family and blogs keep her busy.
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5 Responses to Writing 101 – Day 3 – One-word inspiration

  1. Theo Herbots says:

    Reblogged this on .

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  2. jannatwrites says:

    Regret can be a heavy burden sometimes, but we do need to accept what’s done is done. It’s good you are able to see the blessings that are your children.

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  3. Susan says:

    Well written without too much info shared about your ex…that’s his story or for you to tell later. I’ve been there, done that. Married 21 years, divorced now 14 years. Luckily my ex and I get along okay. It helps that he lives in one state and me in another. LOL.:)

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