The word today is press and I am going to use impress as my word of choice.
I think most of us like to impress others and work hard to bring that about, but religiously I think impressing people so that they mention it can be a selfish act on our part. I have to admit that I get excited when I see people praise my post or whatever it is that I posted, but I also can admit that it is a selfish act and I should not be overdoing the feelings that come with that. My son says true selflessness in this area would be doing it all anonymously so that they can’t write their impression of you or what you wrote. The man has a sound head on his shoulders.