The FRIEND (with benefits) is a SWINE

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I have been doing pretty good forgetting him most of the time, but memories do arise and so do the blasted dreams. Last night was a dream. He came back and wanted a relationship again. I was surprised because I never expected to see him again. He wanted his benefits. SWINE!

When he broke it off the second time in 18 years I found Christ. I asked for forgiveness and promised to never have a relationship with a married man again.

I felt bad for his wife, but most of the time I convinced myself that I wasn’t forcing him to be with me. He wanted to be. His way of breaking things off was cowardly and the second time though a different way I know he wanted out.

He had given me a computer (computers over the years) and once he gave me a really nice one. A Terabyte of ram or hard drive. Can’t remember. Everything was supersized and I finally had a CD recorder. He took it back and started bring me cheap little ones with just a cd player and a floppy drive. They kept breaking. They were “free” so I was good, but the last one just before breaking it off was a piece of crap. I wondered why he gave me that. Bingo, I found out. He was leaving and wanted his other stuff back. He builds computers and uses used parts. I occasionally would get a new piece, but it never stayed long.

I went out and bought myself a brand new Microsoft 10 computer. Didn’t help the budget, but I needed a computer that worked and the last one he gave me had quit. I told Staples to scrap it. He wasn’t getting it back.

The dream about him this morning was terrible. It didn’t help that I was sick to my stomach. I have forgiven him. Calling him names helps. I feel better.

I have been sick every morning with stomach pains and I am too old to have a baby, not to mention no sex. Has to be that new antipsychotic. Can cause weight gain too. I just checked. It went up 4 lbs. in the last month. Not bad. Think I will be ok there. Just normal weight fluctuation. The insomnia is crazy and my sleep patterns are nuts.

Time to notify my medication nurse and see what she says about these stomach problems.

Praise the Lord,

Tessa has no more swines

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About Tessa

Teresa (Tessa) Smeigh is now in her 60's and still going strong despite her disabilities affecting both physical and mental abilities. She has bipolar disorder (mental), Fibromyalgia (nerves), degenerative disc disease (spine), and arthritis (joints). Despite that she is active in Mental Health Advocating, writing for www.IBPF.org (volunteer for non-profit) and has 5 blog posts already published by them. She is also working on 2 fiction books (mysteries). She keeps her blog filled with useful content, daily devotionals (She is a Christian), stories and poems. Plenty to keep you busy. She has also been interviewed by blogs and had other posts published on many different blogs. She has 3 blogs so far http://www.tessacandoit.com and http://www.finallyawriter.com and http://www.sunnythoughtsandprayers.wordpress.com She is from Deptford, NJ. Her family and blogs keep her busy.
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One Response to The FRIEND (with benefits) is a SWINE

  1. I am so glad you found Christ

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